We've added a slide show about the life of Christ to our Christmas Eve celebration for the past few years. We watch around the same time that we read the Christmas story in Luke and it's really added a lot to our Christmas Eve. It was created by a sister in our ward. I'm so glad she's let me share it.
Go HERE to watch the slide show.
Merry Christmas!
Showing posts with label Thursday Thought. Show all posts
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Thursday, December 23, 2010
Friday, November 19, 2010
Thursday Thought
...a little late. In preparation for a little mini talk I had to give, I've been reading this article by President Uchtdorf. It's directed to the young women, but I think it applies to every one of us. He says that in order for us to reach our own "happily ever after" we have to experience some sort of trial, adversity, or challenges. We need to have opposition in life so that we can prove what we're made of. He says this:
It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how your life’s story will develop."
I love that last part. It's how we deal with adversity that determines whether or not we'll reach our "happily ever after". I liked this part too:
"In stories, as in life, adversity teaches us things we cannot learn otherwise. Adversity helps to develop a depth of character that comes in no other way. Our loving Heavenly Father has set us in a world filled with challenges and trials so that we, through opposition, can learn wisdom, become stronger, and experience joy."
So next time you're going through something crappy, just remember, that's how it's supposed to be. Nice thought, eh?
"My dear young sisters, you need to know that you will experience your own adversity. None is exempt. You will suffer, be tempted, and make mistakes. You will learn for yourself what every heroine has learned: through overcoming challenges come growth and strength.
I love that last part. It's how we deal with adversity that determines whether or not we'll reach our "happily ever after". I liked this part too:
"In stories, as in life, adversity teaches us things we cannot learn otherwise. Adversity helps to develop a depth of character that comes in no other way. Our loving Heavenly Father has set us in a world filled with challenges and trials so that we, through opposition, can learn wisdom, become stronger, and experience joy."
So next time you're going through something crappy, just remember, that's how it's supposed to be. Nice thought, eh?
Your Happily Ever After, Dieter F. Uchtdorf, April 2010 Conference.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
A rambley one
First of all, is rambley a word? Probably not.
Second of all, blogger changed all its formatting stuff and I can't figure out how to get my dang header centered. So until I do, pretend like it's supposed to be that way, mmmkay?
So I've been on a bit of a blogging hiatus. We have been doing things, I've just been a little too lazy to post about them. But I'm trying to be better. Maybe. ...Not making any promises.
It's not Thursday, so no Thursday Thought, but I have been thinking about something. Maddie and I have been butting heads recently. Recently, as in, most of her life. She is little Miss Independent. She has to do things her way or no way. It has to be on her terms, or no one's. Of course, since she's four years old, she knows how to do everything. She knows the right way to do it and she doesn't need help from anyone, ever. At least she's cute, right?
Anyway, I'm struggling with how to parent her and how to teach her because she's just so difficult to interact with. I'll try to teach her something, and she responds with, "I KNOW!" Time outs don't seem to phase her, taking away privileges doesn't seem to work. I don't know how to reach her. She is SO darn stubborn! If she would just let me help her, I think it would make both of our lives easier. And I think I might grow to love and understand her more because she'd be letting me serve her.
Jump to this past weekend. It was the ward camp out. We camped about 45 minutes away in a beautiful campground. It was a great weekend. I was in charge of most of the festivities which was fine. Except then Aaron got sick. And he couldn't help. He drove up and dropped stuff off, then went home to rest. Which would have been fine, except for trying to do everything, and having Parks and Maddie not in the best of form. Parks got a sick stomach, Maddie was whining/crying/screaming because some boy hit her with a branch. And I'm trying to gather up everyone in the ward for a special program. Anyway, it wasn't working too well.
We made it past the program, and the camping weekend was nearly over. I was getting ready to go, packing up the tent, etc. As I'm doing so, two teen-aged sisters showed up and started helping me pack. I assured them I was OK and I could do it on my own. I didn't want to bother them, it was fine. They insisted that they had nothing better to do. They WANTED to help. I told them again I was OK. Everything was fine. I could do it myself. One of them responded, "You're making it pretty difficult for me to help, but I'm going to do it anyway."
That kind of took me by surprise. Then I started thinking, that maybe I was being just as stubborn as little Maddie. I put off their offers to help, mostly because I didn't want to be a bother. But I WAS being just as stubborn as Maddie. I told those girls I could do it myself. And yes, I could have. BUT, if I didn't let them help, I'd miss out on an opportunity to let them serve me. AND, I would have missed out on an opportunity to grow as well. Because in letting them serve me, I grew closer to them and had a greater amount of respect for them. And it really did help me to let them help.
So the "a-ha!" moment for me was in realizing that we need each other in this life. We need to, in humility, allow others to help and serve us. And we also need to do the same for others. It's the way it's supposed to be. And as much as I'd like to think that I can do everything on my own, sometimes it is SO much easier and nicer to have that help. Now, learning to ask for help, that's another problem altogether. My four-year-old certainly isn't there, and after 31 years on this earth, I'm not much closer either.
Alright, I found one quick quote that goes along with this. Marjorie Pay Hinckley said this:
“Oh, how we need each other. Those of us who are old need you who are young. And, hopefully, you who are young need some of us who are old... We need deep and satisfying and loyal friendships with each other.”
Virginia H. Pearce, ed., Glimpses into the Life and Heart of Marjorie Pay Hinckley (1999), 254–5
Second of all, blogger changed all its formatting stuff and I can't figure out how to get my dang header centered. So until I do, pretend like it's supposed to be that way, mmmkay?
So I've been on a bit of a blogging hiatus. We have been doing things, I've just been a little too lazy to post about them. But I'm trying to be better. Maybe. ...Not making any promises.
It's not Thursday, so no Thursday Thought, but I have been thinking about something. Maddie and I have been butting heads recently. Recently, as in, most of her life. She is little Miss Independent. She has to do things her way or no way. It has to be on her terms, or no one's. Of course, since she's four years old, she knows how to do everything. She knows the right way to do it and she doesn't need help from anyone, ever. At least she's cute, right?
Anyway, I'm struggling with how to parent her and how to teach her because she's just so difficult to interact with. I'll try to teach her something, and she responds with, "I KNOW!" Time outs don't seem to phase her, taking away privileges doesn't seem to work. I don't know how to reach her. She is SO darn stubborn! If she would just let me help her, I think it would make both of our lives easier. And I think I might grow to love and understand her more because she'd be letting me serve her.Jump to this past weekend. It was the ward camp out. We camped about 45 minutes away in a beautiful campground. It was a great weekend. I was in charge of most of the festivities which was fine. Except then Aaron got sick. And he couldn't help. He drove up and dropped stuff off, then went home to rest. Which would have been fine, except for trying to do everything, and having Parks and Maddie not in the best of form. Parks got a sick stomach, Maddie was whining/crying/screaming because some boy hit her with a branch. And I'm trying to gather up everyone in the ward for a special program. Anyway, it wasn't working too well.
We made it past the program, and the camping weekend was nearly over. I was getting ready to go, packing up the tent, etc. As I'm doing so, two teen-aged sisters showed up and started helping me pack. I assured them I was OK and I could do it on my own. I didn't want to bother them, it was fine. They insisted that they had nothing better to do. They WANTED to help. I told them again I was OK. Everything was fine. I could do it myself. One of them responded, "You're making it pretty difficult for me to help, but I'm going to do it anyway."
That kind of took me by surprise. Then I started thinking, that maybe I was being just as stubborn as little Maddie. I put off their offers to help, mostly because I didn't want to be a bother. But I WAS being just as stubborn as Maddie. I told those girls I could do it myself. And yes, I could have. BUT, if I didn't let them help, I'd miss out on an opportunity to let them serve me. AND, I would have missed out on an opportunity to grow as well. Because in letting them serve me, I grew closer to them and had a greater amount of respect for them. And it really did help me to let them help.
So the "a-ha!" moment for me was in realizing that we need each other in this life. We need to, in humility, allow others to help and serve us. And we also need to do the same for others. It's the way it's supposed to be. And as much as I'd like to think that I can do everything on my own, sometimes it is SO much easier and nicer to have that help. Now, learning to ask for help, that's another problem altogether. My four-year-old certainly isn't there, and after 31 years on this earth, I'm not much closer either.
Alright, I found one quick quote that goes along with this. Marjorie Pay Hinckley said this:
“Oh, how we need each other. Those of us who are old need you who are young. And, hopefully, you who are young need some of us who are old... We need deep and satisfying and loyal friendships with each other.”
Virginia H. Pearce, ed., Glimpses into the Life and Heart of Marjorie Pay Hinckley (1999), 254–5
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Thursday Thought
It's been awhile since I've found a good Thursday Thought. Probably because I haven't been looking. But this one from the lds.org homepage is pretty darn good. It's directed to youth, but I think it applies to all of us at one time or another.
Elder Uchtdorf tells the story about the Ugly Duckling and makes several comparisons to our lives. He says this:
"There will always be voices telling you that you are foolish to believe that you are swans, insisting you are but ugly ducklings and that you can’t expect to become anything else.
Elder Uchtdorf tells the story about the Ugly Duckling and makes several comparisons to our lives. He says this:
"There will always be voices telling you that you are foolish to believe that you are swans, insisting you are but ugly ducklings and that you can’t expect to become anything else.
But you know better. Because of the revealed word of a merciful God, you have seen your true reflection in the water and you have felt the eternal glory of that divine spirit within you. You are no ordinary beings, my beloved young friends all around the world. You are glorious and eternal."
"It is my prayer and blessing that when you look at your reflection, you will be able to see beyond imperfections and self-doubts and recognize who you truly are: glorious sons and daughters of the Almighty God."
And here's the YouTube video that was created from this content:
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Name that Thursday Thought
Alright, time for a little shake up in the Thursday Thought realm. Last week as I was trying (unsuccessfully) to get to sleep the night before the Wasatch Back, I listened to a few Conference talks hoping they'd put me to sleep. Unfortunately they didn't have a sleep-inducing effect on me, but I did enjoy quite a few talks.
So, I'm going to post a quote from one of the April 2010 Conference talks, and your job is to find out what talk it's from and read it. Then come back and leave a comment with whose talk it's from. And if you can do it without using the search function, you get bonus points. Here goes:
“Our family’s faith is in Jesus Christ and is not dependent on outcomes.”
Isn't that a great quote? It sounds like a family mission statement. So, do you know who said it? I'll give you a hint. It's from the session the girls can't go to. The first person to correctly comment with who said it could win a really cool prize. Like maybe a red scripture marking pencil. :)
So, I'm going to post a quote from one of the April 2010 Conference talks, and your job is to find out what talk it's from and read it. Then come back and leave a comment with whose talk it's from. And if you can do it without using the search function, you get bonus points. Here goes:
“Our family’s faith is in Jesus Christ and is not dependent on outcomes.”
Isn't that a great quote? It sounds like a family mission statement. So, do you know who said it? I'll give you a hint. It's from the session the girls can't go to. The first person to correctly comment with who said it could win a really cool prize. Like maybe a red scripture marking pencil. :)
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Thursday Thought: Short and Simple
As I listened to this last Conference I was impressed with Elder Christofferson's talk about the scriptures. Here's a short excerpt from that talk:
"being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost."
That thought keeps playing through my mind over and over. When we're confirmed we're commanded to receive the Holy Ghost. He becomes our constant companion only if we receive Him. But, it requires action on our part. And through this talk I've learned that reading our scriptures is one way we can act and receive the Holy Ghost. Neat, huh.
And if you want a little more meat, here's the entire paragraph I drew that sentence from:
"Because they expound the doctrine of Christ, the scriptures are accompanied by the Holy Spirit, whose role it is to bear witness of the Father and the Son (see 3 Nephi 11:32). Therefore, being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost. Of course, scripture is given through the Holy Ghost in the first place (see 2 Peter 1:21; D&C 20:26–27; 68:4), and that same Spirit can attest its truth to you and me. Study the scriptures carefully, deliberately. Ponder and pray over them. Scriptures are revelation, and they will bring added revelation."
"being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost."
That thought keeps playing through my mind over and over. When we're confirmed we're commanded to receive the Holy Ghost. He becomes our constant companion only if we receive Him. But, it requires action on our part. And through this talk I've learned that reading our scriptures is one way we can act and receive the Holy Ghost. Neat, huh.
And if you want a little more meat, here's the entire paragraph I drew that sentence from:
"Because they expound the doctrine of Christ, the scriptures are accompanied by the Holy Spirit, whose role it is to bear witness of the Father and the Son (see 3 Nephi 11:32). Therefore, being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost. Of course, scripture is given through the Holy Ghost in the first place (see 2 Peter 1:21; D&C 20:26–27; 68:4), and that same Spirit can attest its truth to you and me. Study the scriptures carefully, deliberately. Ponder and pray over them. Scriptures are revelation, and they will bring added revelation."
"The Blessing of Scripture", Elder D. Todd Christofferson, April 2010 Conference.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Thursday Thought
In church on Sunday, there was a talk was quoted quite frequently, and I really liked a lot of what it had to say. It's about the Book of Mormon, and how to receive answers to prayers and questions through reading the Book of Mormon.
It's a good reminder for me because I often put scripture reading on the back burner. Life and its distractions often crowd out the things that are most important. This talk helped me to realize the importance of persistent scripture study. I especially liked this part:
"Life moves all too fast. When you feel weak, discouraged, depressed, or afraid, open the Book of Mormon and read. Do not let too much time pass before reading a verse, a thought, or a chapter."
I've often heard it said that reading scriptures is one of the best anti-depressants there is, and I'm sure it's true. This part is also good:
"...plain and precious insights are everywhere in the Book of Mormon... I learned that anyone, anywhere, could read in the Book of Mormon and receive inspiration. Some insights came after reading a second, even a third time and seemed to be “likened” to what I faced in everyday life."
So after reading this talk I'm more determined to make scripture study a priority in my life, and to turn to them when I'm in need of answers.
Boyd K. Packer, “The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ—Plain and Precious Things,” Ensign, May 2005, 6
It's a good reminder for me because I often put scripture reading on the back burner. Life and its distractions often crowd out the things that are most important. This talk helped me to realize the importance of persistent scripture study. I especially liked this part:
"Life moves all too fast. When you feel weak, discouraged, depressed, or afraid, open the Book of Mormon and read. Do not let too much time pass before reading a verse, a thought, or a chapter."
I've often heard it said that reading scriptures is one of the best anti-depressants there is, and I'm sure it's true. This part is also good:
"...plain and precious insights are everywhere in the Book of Mormon... I learned that anyone, anywhere, could read in the Book of Mormon and receive inspiration. Some insights came after reading a second, even a third time and seemed to be “likened” to what I faced in everyday life."
So after reading this talk I'm more determined to make scripture study a priority in my life, and to turn to them when I'm in need of answers.
Boyd K. Packer, “The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ—Plain and Precious Things,” Ensign, May 2005, 6
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Thursday Thought- kind of
So I read this article recently. If you've ever screeched or screamed at your kids, then go here to read it. It's not by a General Authority, but it certainly made me think twice about the way I parent my children. I especially liked this part:
"As children get older, they find different things to do that will make their parents want to screech in surprise, fright, dread or anger... But the very fact that they expect, when discovered, to be screeched at does not mean that screeching is the best response. They know you disapprove. That's why they concealed it from you until now....More often than not, a calm discussion is the best way to begin."
"Of Children, Eggs, and Screeching", Orson Scott Card, 4 March 2010
"As children get older, they find different things to do that will make their parents want to screech in surprise, fright, dread or anger... But the very fact that they expect, when discovered, to be screeched at does not mean that screeching is the best response. They know you disapprove. That's why they concealed it from you until now....More often than not, a calm discussion is the best way to begin."
"Of Children, Eggs, and Screeching", Orson Scott Card, 4 March 2010
Friday, February 12, 2010
Thursday Thought
A little late- but I still wanted to sneak a thought in for this week. This one is an oldie, but a goodie. I just love Sheri Dew. What an amazing woman. Her book, God Wants a Powerful People is one of my favorites. I love the way she encourages, uplifts, and inspires. Here's a quote from a conference talk from long ago that I really like:
"...no woman is more persuasive, no woman has greater influence for good, no woman is a more vibrant instrument in the hands of the Lord than a woman of God who is thrilled to be who she is. I like to think of us as the Lord’s secret weapon."
I love the part "thrilled to be who she is". How often can we say that about ourselves? It's hard to get to that point, but when we feel that way, it's amazing how much we can accomplish.
"...no woman is more persuasive, no woman has greater influence for good, no woman is a more vibrant instrument in the hands of the Lord than a woman of God who is thrilled to be who she is. I like to think of us as the Lord’s secret weapon."
I love the part "thrilled to be who she is". How often can we say that about ourselves? It's hard to get to that point, but when we feel that way, it's amazing how much we can accomplish.
Sheri L. Dew, “Stand Tall and Stand Together,” Ensign, Nov 2000, 94–96
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Thursday Thought
So this Sunday I get to teach Relief Society. Ha ha. I'm sure it will be loads of fun (sarcasm intended). But at least preparing for it has given me some great material for this Thursday Thought. I'm teaching Elder Uchtdorf's talk from the past October Conference "The Love of God". Here's one of the parts I've really liked:
"My dear brothers and sisters, don’t get discouraged if you stumble at times. Don’t feel downcast or despair if you don’t feel worthy to be a disciple of Christ at all times. The first step to walking in righteousness is simply to try. We must try to believe. Try to learn of God: read the scriptures; study the words of His latter-day prophets; choose to listen to the Father, and do the things He asks of us. Try and keep on trying until that which seems difficult becomes possible—and that which seems only possible becomes habit and a real part of you."
Isn't that the way it is with the gospel? We just have to try, even if it's difficult. And then keep trying until it becomes a part of us. Such great advice.
"My dear brothers and sisters, don’t get discouraged if you stumble at times. Don’t feel downcast or despair if you don’t feel worthy to be a disciple of Christ at all times. The first step to walking in righteousness is simply to try. We must try to believe. Try to learn of God: read the scriptures; study the words of His latter-day prophets; choose to listen to the Father, and do the things He asks of us. Try and keep on trying until that which seems difficult becomes possible—and that which seems only possible becomes habit and a real part of you."
Isn't that the way it is with the gospel? We just have to try, even if it's difficult. And then keep trying until it becomes a part of us. Such great advice.
Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “The Love of God,” Ensign, Nov 2009, 21–24
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Thursday Thought
These past couple of weeks we've spent a lot of time together as a family. A lot. Did I mention a lot? It was nice for awhile, but I think we're starting to get a bit snippity and unfriendly toward one another. It's not really how I imagined my glorious life as a stay-at-home-mom would be. I'm not the perfect mom or wife. Sometimes it's all I can do to make it through the day. But I do love my kids and hopefully as they grow up, they'll come to understand that a little more.
Anyway, a couple days ago I bought Cherie Call's latest CD, "Grace". I'm usually not a fan of Mormon music artists. In fact they kind of bug me. It seems like they're either trying to show off their amazingly gifted voices, or they totally butcher hymns. But I really genuinely like Cherie Call. She's able to put a voice to some of the same thoughts and feelings I've had.
One of the songs on her new CD just spoke to me. Deep down it's how I really feel about my children and my family. I tried to embed the song to this post but couldn't make it work. So below the lyrics, there's a link where you can listen to a sample or purchase the song.
The song is called "Walk You Through the Night":
I don't have eyes in the back of my head
I don't wear bright red knee high boots or a leotard with an "S"
And I only have five senses, the sixth one's never there
When I don't know why you're crying and I have to guess
I see you're having trouble sleeping, so am I
I've been hoping I know how to raise you right
I can't cast a magic spell, but I can take you for a trip around the block
Rest your head now while I hold you tight
And I will walk you through the night
As we walk beneath the sparkling stars
Your body's getting heavier, you're finally giving in
And my mind slips through the future, to the troubles you could have
And I don't know how to fix them, I just have to guess
You are bound to have some nightmares, so am I
But you can count on me to hold you when you cry
I can't take it all away
But I can tell you I've been down this road before
I can't promise that I'll always get it right
But I will walk you through the night
And if it's raining, I will drive you
And if it's late at night, I don't care what time you call
I may not be the best at very many things
But I believe I love you perfectly
Times go by so relentlessly
I hope that you outlive me, that's how it's meant to be
And I believe in Heaven, but there are still some things
That I just can't fully fathom, I just have to guess
If God will grant my wish, I will wait for you
Beyond the veil just before you slip through
And as you softly close your eyes
I will sing my lullabies to you
And before you make your way into the light
I will walk you through the night
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Go here to listen to a sample of this song. And here if you'd like to purchase it. It's song #6, although the whole album is worth purchasing.
Anyway, a couple days ago I bought Cherie Call's latest CD, "Grace". I'm usually not a fan of Mormon music artists. In fact they kind of bug me. It seems like they're either trying to show off their amazingly gifted voices, or they totally butcher hymns. But I really genuinely like Cherie Call. She's able to put a voice to some of the same thoughts and feelings I've had.
One of the songs on her new CD just spoke to me. Deep down it's how I really feel about my children and my family. I tried to embed the song to this post but couldn't make it work. So below the lyrics, there's a link where you can listen to a sample or purchase the song.
The song is called "Walk You Through the Night":
I don't have eyes in the back of my head
I don't wear bright red knee high boots or a leotard with an "S"
And I only have five senses, the sixth one's never there
When I don't know why you're crying and I have to guess
I see you're having trouble sleeping, so am I
I've been hoping I know how to raise you right
I can't cast a magic spell, but I can take you for a trip around the block
Rest your head now while I hold you tight
And I will walk you through the night
As we walk beneath the sparkling stars
Your body's getting heavier, you're finally giving in
And my mind slips through the future, to the troubles you could have
And I don't know how to fix them, I just have to guess
You are bound to have some nightmares, so am I
But you can count on me to hold you when you cry
I can't take it all away
But I can tell you I've been down this road before
I can't promise that I'll always get it right
But I will walk you through the night
And if it's raining, I will drive you
And if it's late at night, I don't care what time you call
I may not be the best at very many things
But I believe I love you perfectly
Times go by so relentlessly
I hope that you outlive me, that's how it's meant to be
And I believe in Heaven, but there are still some things
That I just can't fully fathom, I just have to guess
If God will grant my wish, I will wait for you
Beyond the veil just before you slip through
And as you softly close your eyes
I will sing my lullabies to you
And before you make your way into the light
I will walk you through the night
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Go here to listen to a sample of this song. And here if you'd like to purchase it. It's song #6, although the whole album is worth purchasing.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
What Shall We Give?
Growing up, one of our family's greatest Christmas traditions took place on Christmas Eve. We'd gather around, read the Christmas story from the Bible, and then think about what we could give to Jesus as a gift of service on Christmas Day. We were taught that giving of ourselves was much more important than giving presents.
I really like this latest Mormon Message that talks about the same thing. I hope that my children will one day come to understand and embody this truth as well. Merry Christmas.
I really like this latest Mormon Message that talks about the same thing. I hope that my children will one day come to understand and embody this truth as well. Merry Christmas.
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Thursday Thought
I've been thinking a lot lately about why we're here on earth and even placed into the particular circumstances we're living in. I believe one of the most important reasons we're here is to help one another.
As I've been thinking back over my life, I realize there are many times I felt prompted to call or check on someone. Sometimes I followed through on those promptings, other times I have not. So I wonder if whether or not I followed through had an impact (good or bad) on someone else's life. I don't know, but I do know that one of the greatest things we can do on this earth is strengthen, uplift, and support one another. President Monson said this in the October general conference:
"My brothers and sisters, we are surrounded by those in need of our attention, our encouragement, our support, our comfort, our kindness—be they family members, friends, acquaintances, or strangers. We are the Lord’s hands here upon the earth, with the mandate to serve and to lift His children. He is dependent upon each of us."
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Thankful Thursday Thought
This week for FHE, we made this Thankful Tree. I stole the idea from here.
Her tree looks much better than mine. Mine's made of an old paper sack and the leaves are mostly hand tracings.
Each of us wrote on the leaves the things we're thankful for. Apparently we're thankful for those things that could be seen within the 10 foot radius of where we were making the tree (scissors, couch, blankets, etc.) We have extra leaves so when we think of something else we're thankful for, we'll add it to the tree. I hope we start being more thankful, because our tree is looking a little sad.
Her tree looks much better than mine. Mine's made of an old paper sack and the leaves are mostly hand tracings.
Each of us wrote on the leaves the things we're thankful for. Apparently we're thankful for those things that could be seen within the 10 foot radius of where we were making the tree (scissors, couch, blankets, etc.) We have extra leaves so when we think of something else we're thankful for, we'll add it to the tree. I hope we start being more thankful, because our tree is looking a little sad.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Thursday Thought
I would like to believe that I'm the perfect spouse. But the truth is, I fall short. Among other things, I tend to be selfish and I always like to think I'm right. So just like anything good in this life, marriage requires a lot of work and concerted effort. I like what Elder Nelson says here:
“Meanwhile, mortal misunderstandings can make mischief in a marriage. In fact, each marriage starts with two built-in handicaps. It involves two imperfect people. Happiness can come to them only through their earnest effort. Just as harmony comes from an orchestra only when its members make a concerted effort, so harmony in marriage also requires a concerted effort. That effort will succeed if each partner will minimize personal demands and maximize actions of loving selflessness.”
I also like this part from the same talk:
"(The) proclamation on the family helps us realize that celestial marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other relationship."
“Meanwhile, mortal misunderstandings can make mischief in a marriage. In fact, each marriage starts with two built-in handicaps. It involves two imperfect people. Happiness can come to them only through their earnest effort. Just as harmony comes from an orchestra only when its members make a concerted effort, so harmony in marriage also requires a concerted effort. That effort will succeed if each partner will minimize personal demands and maximize actions of loving selflessness.”
I also like this part from the same talk:
"(The) proclamation on the family helps us realize that celestial marriage brings greater possibilities for happiness than does any other relationship."
Russell M. Nelson, “Celestial Marriage,” Liahona, Nov 2008, 92–95
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Thursday Thought
“Now is the time for each of us to work toward our personal conversion, toward becoming what our Heavenly Father desires us to become. As we do so, we should remember that our family relationships—even more than our Church callings—are the setting in which the most important part of that development can occur. The conversion we must achieve requires us to be a good husband and father or a good wife and mother. Being a successful Church leader is not enough. Exaltation is an eternal family experience, and it is our mortal family experiences that are best suited to prepare us for it.”
Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Liahona, Jan 2001, 40–43
Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Liahona, Jan 2001, 40–43
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Thursday Thought
“Let us . . . honor the special place of the family. As James Q. Wilson wrote:“ ‘We learn to cope with the people of this world because we learn to cope with the members of our family. Those who flee the family flee the world; bereft of the [family’s] affection, tutelage, and challenges, they are unprepared for the [world’s] tests, judgments, and demands’ (The Moral Sense [1993], 163).”
Neal A. Maxwell, “The Tugs and Pulls of the World,” Liahona, Jan 2001, 43–46
So I'm hoping that because Parks and Maddie are (hopefully) learning how to deal with each other, that they'll be better prepared to deal with others in the world. Unless those others make them mad. Then watch out.
Neal A. Maxwell, “The Tugs and Pulls of the World,” Liahona, Jan 2001, 43–46
So I'm hoping that because Parks and Maddie are (hopefully) learning how to deal with each other, that they'll be better prepared to deal with others in the world. Unless those others make them mad. Then watch out.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Thursday Thought
Just a disclaimer, this thought is coming straight from the book of Megan, so take it for what it's worth. ;)
I visited with an incredible friend this past week. She has been through a lot in her life and has managed to come out of it stronger, wiser, and with a truly remarkable attitude. As she was telling me some of the incredibly good things that have happened to her lately, I couldn't help but think that she was being watched over, protected and strengthened from a place beyond this world. As she spoke, I could feel how much love our Heavenly Father had for her. I could sense how amazing her spirit was and I knew without a doubt that she is one of our Heavenly Father's chosen daughters. I felt honored to know her and be her friend. And I knew she was being cared for and protected in her life because she was trying her hardest to do what was right.
And as I sat there just feeling how much love I felt for her, and that our Heavenly Father also felt for her, I knew that He holds the same love for each of us. He knows us. He knows our trials and our tribulations. He knows what we've been through. He wants us to make the right decisions, but even if we don't, He loves each and every one of us unconditionally. Sometimes because of where we're at in life, or because of some decisions we've made, we don't understand how He can love us that much and we often feel unworthy of His love.
But looking at this friend, I felt how strongly she was loved and I started to believe that He might possibly love me just as much too. This is something I still struggle with, but this week I came a little closer to comprehending it.
Elder Anthony D. Perkins said this:
"...see yourself as a precious child of a loving Father in Heaven. Our children with confidence sing, “I am a child of God, and he has sent me here.” Little children feel and know what perhaps you have forgotten. You are the beloved son or daughter of Heavenly Father, created “in his own image,” and of immense value—so much so that Jesus Christ gave His life for you.
God the Father is merciful and has infinite love for you despite your faults. "
Anthony D. Perkins, “‘The Great and Wonderful Love’,” Ensign, Nov 2006, 76–78
I visited with an incredible friend this past week. She has been through a lot in her life and has managed to come out of it stronger, wiser, and with a truly remarkable attitude. As she was telling me some of the incredibly good things that have happened to her lately, I couldn't help but think that she was being watched over, protected and strengthened from a place beyond this world. As she spoke, I could feel how much love our Heavenly Father had for her. I could sense how amazing her spirit was and I knew without a doubt that she is one of our Heavenly Father's chosen daughters. I felt honored to know her and be her friend. And I knew she was being cared for and protected in her life because she was trying her hardest to do what was right.
And as I sat there just feeling how much love I felt for her, and that our Heavenly Father also felt for her, I knew that He holds the same love for each of us. He knows us. He knows our trials and our tribulations. He knows what we've been through. He wants us to make the right decisions, but even if we don't, He loves each and every one of us unconditionally. Sometimes because of where we're at in life, or because of some decisions we've made, we don't understand how He can love us that much and we often feel unworthy of His love.
But looking at this friend, I felt how strongly she was loved and I started to believe that He might possibly love me just as much too. This is something I still struggle with, but this week I came a little closer to comprehending it.
Elder Anthony D. Perkins said this:
"...see yourself as a precious child of a loving Father in Heaven. Our children with confidence sing, “I am a child of God, and he has sent me here.” Little children feel and know what perhaps you have forgotten. You are the beloved son or daughter of Heavenly Father, created “in his own image,” and of immense value—so much so that Jesus Christ gave His life for you.
God the Father is merciful and has infinite love for you despite your faults. "
Anthony D. Perkins, “‘The Great and Wonderful Love’,” Ensign, Nov 2006, 76–78
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Thursday Thought
As members of the Church, we know that missionary work is important. But for me it's so hard! I hate to feel like I'm forcing my beliefs on someone else. I'm afraid of what might happen if I choose to bring the subject of religion up. But I think if I can get past my fears, amazing things, even miracles might happen. Speaking of the miracle of missionary work, Elder Eyring said this:
"To be part of that miracle, you must not wait until you feel closer to Heavenly Father or until you are sure that you have been purified through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Pray for the chance to encounter people who sense there could be something better in their lives. Pray to know what you should do to help them. Your prayers will be answered. You will meet people prepared by the Lord. You will find yourself feeling and saying things beyond your past experience. And then in time you will feel yourself drawing closer to your Heavenly Father, and you will feel the cleansing and the forgiveness the Savior promises His faithful witnesses. And you will feel His approval, knowing you have done what He asked of you, because He loves you and trusts you."
Henry B. Eyring, “A Child and a Disciple,” Ensign, May 2003, 29
"To be part of that miracle, you must not wait until you feel closer to Heavenly Father or until you are sure that you have been purified through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Pray for the chance to encounter people who sense there could be something better in their lives. Pray to know what you should do to help them. Your prayers will be answered. You will meet people prepared by the Lord. You will find yourself feeling and saying things beyond your past experience. And then in time you will feel yourself drawing closer to your Heavenly Father, and you will feel the cleansing and the forgiveness the Savior promises His faithful witnesses. And you will feel His approval, knowing you have done what He asked of you, because He loves you and trusts you."
Henry B. Eyring, “A Child and a Disciple,” Ensign, May 2003, 29
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Thursday Thought
I read this thought from President Eyring in last month's Visiting Teaching message. It definitely puts things into perspective. I think all too often I put "entertaining myself" at the top of my to do list. Maybe now I'll think twice before I plunk myself down in front of a computer or television. But at the same time, I don't think he means we have to spend every minute of every day learning. Just that we need to be wise in what we do with our time. Anyway, here's what he has to say:
“We will have to make some hard choices of how we use our time. … But remember, you are interested in education, not just for mortal life but for eternal life. When you see that reality clearly with spiritual sight, you will put spiritual learning first and yet not slight the secular learning. …
“We will have to make some hard choices of how we use our time. … But remember, you are interested in education, not just for mortal life but for eternal life. When you see that reality clearly with spiritual sight, you will put spiritual learning first and yet not slight the secular learning. …
“… And since what we will need to know is hard to discern, we need the help of heaven to know which of the myriad things we could study we would most wisely learn. It also means that we cannot waste time entertaining ourselves when we have the chance to read or to listen to whatever will help us learn what is true and useful. Insatiable curiosity will be our hallmark.”
Henry B. Eyring, “Education for Real Life,” Ensign, Oct 2002, 14
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